Love... is it just a word? A word so complex that maybe 10 years isn't enough to describe what it is. What the difference is between love and false emotion. Love added to relationships- it's more difficult then you think. When you're young love is tossed around more than the phase "I Like You". Just because in that moment in that second that period of time everything seems perfect and you and your significant other experience happiness doesn't really mean you "love" each other. Love takes time as do all things: friendships, job opportunities, building trust,etc. If love was so simple to acquire then why are heart breaks more common then love is? The deciet behind lies, the other side of the mirror, only showing you what you want to see. Inexperience, own personal ambitions, mentalities disrupt the image of love and balance between two beings.
For instance: a girl hasn't been socially involved with others, relationship wise, sexually, not even being around other people. Ok then after awhile this boy comes around sees her and decides to talk to her; they get to know each other and after awhile the girl starts to feel this intense growing emotion towards the boy. All she knows is her and the boy you see, she doesn't know what the boy is really about she don't know the boy outside the two of them being together. This reflection she sees- this balance that helps her see as people being kind and loving and caring could really be a lie. The boy is different then she, he is involved in socal outtings with friends; he has a past with relationships, past sexual partners and could even be still involved with these exs'. The truth behind this image of two people being together is held together by lies, cheating, a chaos she does not see. This happens all to often in this new generation of youth. Boy meets girl- boy like girl- boy falls for girl- boy finds out girl is lying- boy is devastaded- boy ends up having trust issues.
Emotions can sometimes be bad but that doesn't mean that you will never find something true. Through trial and error, falling down and getting back up again even I a hopeless romantic have found strong reasons to believe there is someone out there for me. There are many obstucles in front of me and that person for example: age difference, maturity, mentality, morals, etc. But I keep pressing on standing tall against the rain against the lonely nights against the guilt against the disappointments. Don't think you are a fool for trusting someone, you live and learn, there are going to be disappointments, there are going to be hardships but you must overcome or else it'll consume you. Experience has taught me a lot in my 19 years of living and I still have a lot to continue learning. Many more ups and downs are on the horizon- it's all about how you are able to cope how you are able to deal with the situation the cards you are dealt that will determine the outcome.
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